What is the Truth About Your Situation While Going Through the Foreclosure Process?

Part 3

Sandra just couldn’t believe it. Her lender who she thought was on her side seemed like he had just turned against her.  And while she was usually happy and optimistic, now she became resigned and cynical.  She felt certain she would have been able to pay this mortgage had the lender done what he had promised he would do. She was really sure it was not her fault that she was in foreclosure.  Yet, why did it  seem like was she the only one suffering all the circumstances. Who would take responsibility for her lender’s errors in handling her file?

The lender blamed the mortgage broker and the mortgage broker blamed the realtor and the realtor blamed her. And she was just too horrified to know where to place  the blame or even how to dig herself out of this mess. Somehow Sandra seemed insulated from the truth that it was her house in foreclosure and no matter who was to blame she was the one who was ultimately responsible. That’s right she was ultimately responsible for finding a way out of her financial demise.

But how was that even going to become possible? Where would she have to start?She could not possibly begin to believe that her story was not being heard, or understood by any of the parties involved.  Even if they didn’t want to take help her, couldn’t they at least see that it was not her fault?

There are three main elements to understanding “the truth about your situation while going through the foreclosure process.”  If you do not understand these elements then you will not fully get at the roots of your foreclosure situation. And if you cannot get to the roots of your foreclosure situation then you will be forever caught up in your story about what is really going on and you’ll be stuck with little or no power to get out of foreclosure.

So what are these main elements? 1. You can choose to be related to a wealth creation challenge instead of your foreclosure problem 2. You can choose to believe in your power instead of believing in your faults and weaknesses 3. You can choose to block out the noise of the world around you that clamors for your attention and saps your energy.

So, let’s look briefly at these three concepts and see how they impact your life situation while in foreclosure. First know this. By participating in this exercise you will gain access to an amazing ability to really think clearly about your foreclosure situation.  This clear and powerful thought process will lead you to identify who you are ”being” in the conversation of your foreclosure. And by discovering ways in which you can be powerful, resourceful and wealthy you will find yourself taking new and dynamic actions to not only stop your foreclosure but create wealth.

So, really you have a powerful choice to make. You can indeed choose to be related to a wealth creation challenge instead of a foreclosure problem. You do see that don’t you? I would venture to say that you probably don’t see it in all of its fullness.  Most people don’t really get that they have built up solid and precious ties to themselves being related to their foreclosure problem and very weak and insignificant ties to themselves being related to their wealth creation ability. Have you ever seen it that way? Have you really looked at that? Many people don’t realize how little they have invested in taking on the wealth creation challenge and how much they have invested in their foreclosure problem.

Think of how you’ve chosen to relate to this “foreclosure problem” you’re facing? Can you see how you’ve oriented yourself to the possibility of you losing your house.  You actually feel the pain, shame and embarrassment of it on every level. And you’ve probably even visualized what you would do and how you would cope with the situation.

What’s missing? A corresponding possibility of you being related to the wealth building challenge that has arisen before you in the presence of this foreclosure problem. Boy oh Boy, do I really wish you can get that.  Miracles will start happening for you in your life once you begin to relate to the wealth creation challenge that arises inside of the foreclosure problem you’re facing. And those miracles will be brought about by you. You will actually begin to take different courses of action.   Some of these very actions may surprise you and even shock you. And who knows if within one or more of those actions you will find a solution to your foreclosure problem? Can you now see that in that moment you might have found much more than you bargained for? You might actually find a pathway to amazing wealth and real financial power? This might have you taking all kinds of dramatic actions that you could not possibly have taken before.

You might even discover a new career.  Wow!!! Talk about turning an obstacle into an opportunity. Then you can choose to believe in your power instead of believing in your faults and weaknesses.  You may not feel like it now but you do have power. And you have amazing power. If you’ll only pause for a moment and examine your life.  You have so much power that some people are afraid of you. Isn’t that what’s going on with the bank or lender? Forget about the way you’ve seen it before. Just see it this way for a moment.

You have so much power that the banker or lender you’re dealing with in this foreclosure is reluctant to meet with you. Out of that notion you’ve created the belief that you are weak, helpless and hopeless and you cannot possibly get freedom to be the expression of your real power.  You cannot find the freedom to express yourself as who you really are -  with the power to impact your world. All because you’ve chosen to invest so much energy in the thought that there is nothing “I CAN DO,” or “THIS IS HARD,” or “THIS IS NOT FOR ME” or “I CAN’T DO THIS.”

I suggest you stop this right now. Reorient yourself! Redesign yourself newly and completely as someone who believes in “His” power. And since powerful people take responsibility, you’ll immediately begin taking powerful responsibility and redesigning your world.  Once again you will take actions that you hitherto would not have taken. You will create powerful results that before this seemed totally unavailable to you.

You can choose to block out the noise of the world around you that clamors for your attention and saps your energy. While facing foreclosure it is only natural to hear all the noise and talk of the world around you. Have you noticed how all that bad news just pulls you down? Have you noticed how it only adds to your frustration and does not empower you? Can you see how you’ve chosen to get sucked in to the lives and world of others and tethered to a world way? Well trust me, I’ve taken some powerful steps and actions on your behalf by writing this daring and heart piercing blog post. I’ve held back nothing and shared bluntly and openly some ways in which you can get a new attitude and philosophy for life.

Now, it is your turn to act.  And I’ve made something special and powerful available to you to help you stop your foreclosure situation. But you must act now. I’ve created a joint venture with the Loan Negotiator Group whereby you can secure a loan modification for your house. The actions you will need to take to get that loan modification will come out of you being totally different than you have been in the past. I am challenging you to take on everything I’ve talked about in this post and take those new actions.

First, start relating to your foreclosure problem as a wealth creation challenge instead of a problem. Second, start relating to yourself as being powerful and dynamic instead of weak and impotent. Third, block out the noise of the world and the negative energy that saps your energy.

Contact the Loan Negotiator Group online right now on this blog. Simply click on the link that says “Loan Negotiator Group” and thoroughly fill out all the information there. Then once the information is complete click on the link that says “Submit Query” and your application questionnaire will be complete.  Someone will contact you within 24 hours to ask further questions about your situation or foreclosure process as well as answer any questions you may have.

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